I feel like I'm Christian bashing a bit, so I apologize to all in advance.
Here's my rant on the issue of same-sex marriage.
I was listening to Paul Crouch of the imfamouse Trinity Broadcasting Network (TBN). He was talking about how the ministers of the early television era viewed this new media as a tool of the devil and largely boycotted its use in their ministry. Crouch was lamenting this missed opportunity of his generation--seeing how secular powers, not the church, used this new technology to infiltrate nearly every home in America with its message. He views this failure as a major setback for the Gospel and as something that will be difficult for the church to recover from. We didn't see the possible results of our inaction.
Over the past several decades family values have been erroded, more and more children are born out of wedlock, divorce and repeat marriages are on the rise. Traditional marriage and family are no longer seen as anything sacred. This is true of the secular world. And if statistics are reliable, we Christians are right along for the ride. A self proclaimed Baptist (I heard her say so), Britany Spears' starter marriage lasted just over a day. That's a bad example, I know. I'd just rather not think of several members of my own family who have been in similar situations.
This has been the case over the last 50 years and now we Christians are up in arms, pleading to the public to "Save our traditions!", "Marriage is sacred!,"Say NO to Adam and Steve!!"
I'm sorry, but we lost our authority in the matter years ago when our divorce rate equaled the rest of the nation's 50%. Now we are crying when someone else threatens to tread on our watered down, hallowed ground and suddenly we remember that marriage is a God ordained institution between man and woman till DEATH DO US PART!! So often I feel like it's our own damn fault that this and others like it are even an issue.
We missed our chance to be in America's living room, and we've been playing catch-up ever since. We didn't even care about upholding our own morals and values and we wonder why they are being compromised to the point of meaninglessness? This is the result of our own inaction that began decades ago.
This is why I often feel like I have to apologize for being a Christian.
I do not know what to do.
God, help us and forgive us for our hypocrisy.
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